3 Things That I’m No Longer Saying to My Clients
AND WHAT I’M SAYING INSTEAD
Over the past few years I've shifted my wedding and family photography approach to focus more on authenticity and genuine moments of connection. In a world where everything is for the gram I've been drawn to document real life. Whether that's a quiet laugh, a spontaneous hug or just the way people interact when they think I'm not looking.I've learned that the best photos come when people feel truly comfortable so I've put a lot of care into creating a relaxed environment where my clients can just be themselves.
“Can you do that again”
There's nothing I hate more than interrupting a cute moment to ask if they can do it again. Instead I'll say, “I loved that so much. That energy was perfect”. Then they feel confident and use whatever that was as their go to move on their own without me forcing it.
“Look at me”
I'll always make sure to capture one or two of those classic “grandparent” photos but for the most part I encourage my clients to interact with each other instead of me. At the begining of our session I tell them “when in doubt, look at each other”. I set this expection before they ever hire me so they know what to expect.
“Let’s keep shooting”
I pride myself on being able to read people. And when my clients are over it, I'm over it. I'll never force anyone to keep shooting when they don't want to. I'd way rather have less portraits and them having a great time back with their people. I'm constantly checking in, reading their body language and making sure they're happy.
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If you’re looking for a wedding or family photographer to capture you as you are, without any awkward poses or forced reactions, relaxed and present with your loved ones then I’d love to chat with you